NYC Counseling Therapist, Valerie Herman, MSW-I.

Valerie Herman

MSW-I

You don’t have to have everything figured out to start therapy. Sometimes having someone in your corner to talk things through, understand yourself better, and find your way forward can make all the difference.

I work with adolescents, young adults, and adults as they navigate different stages of life, relationships, personal growth, and change. Whether you’re figuring out who you are, adjusting to a new chapter, working through a relationship, or looking for support through a difficult time, therapy can offer a space to slow down and work through what’s going on.

I help clients work through anxiety, relationship challenges, communication and boundaries, self-esteem, and the stress that can come with major life changes. We can also work on managing difficult emotions, building healthier coping skills, and understanding patterns that may be getting in the way. My goal is to help you better understand yourself and feel more confident in the choices you’re making.

My approach is collaborative and draws from ACT, DBT, CBT, and trauma-informed therapy. Sessions are conversational and give you space to talk openly, understand what’s going on, and work together on what would be most helpful. I’ll meet you where you are and we’ll focus on what feels most relevant to you.

 

Approach & Values

Valerie takes a collaborative approach to therapy focused on helping clients understand what is driving their thoughts, emotions, and behavior, and how to respond more effectively. Her work focuses on identifying patterns, building coping skills, navigating relationships and life transitions, and helping clients make clearer, more intentional decisions.

Valerie is attentive to pacing and alignment in the work. She prioritizes understanding each client’s experience in their own words and tailoring the therapeutic process to what feels most relevant and meaningful to them. Her approach emphasizes consistency and follow-through, helping clients turn insight into meaningful, sustained change.

Specialties:

  • Anxiety, Stress Reactivity & Overwhelm
  • Relationship Challenges & Communication
  • Life Transitions & Identity Development
  • Children, Adolescents & Young Adults
  • Children of Separation & Divorce
  • Depression & Low Motivation
  • Emotional Regulation, Coping Skills & Stress Management
  • Play-Based Therapy
  • Self-Esteem & Self-Concept

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